You’re Doing Everything Right… But Something Still Feels Off
Why Leading on Fumes Isn’t Sustainable — and How to Return to Identity
The Problem
You’re doing everything the world says should make you feel fulfilled.
• Your business is growing
• Your calendar is full
• Your family’s doing well
• Your faith isn’t gone — you still pray, still read, still show up
But inside?
Something’s off.
You can feel it.
You’re tired. Not the kind that a nap fixes.
You’re distracted. Drifting.
You feel distant from the God you love.
And that low-grade ache? You’ve gotten used to ignoring it.
You’re still producing. Still leading. Still crushing checklists.
But your soul? It’s running dry.
The Agitation
You know what happens if this goes unchecked.
That subtle spiritual dryness turns into:
• Reactivity at home
• Numbness in prayer
• Distance from your wife
• Guilt when you can’t “feel” God anymore
• And worst of all — a life of constant doing, but no deep being
You weren’t made for this.
You weren’t created to be a robot of responsibility.
You were created to lead from identity — not exhaustion.
To move with clarity — not anxiety.
To walk with God — not just work for Him.
The Solution
That’s why I created 10XF.
It’s not a course or a bunch of content.
It’s a simple, Spirit-led rhythm for Christian men who want to get back in alignment with God.
And it starts with four daily questions:
✍️ “I choose to submit to You today. I choose to listen to Your voice and act.”
🙏 “Jesus, what do You want me to know?”
🎯 “What do You want me to do?”
🕊️ “Holy Spirit, where do You want to heal me today?”
That’s it.
No fluff. No hype. Just 10 minutes of quiet surrender that realigns your entire life.
You’ll start leading from peace again.
You’ll hear God’s voice clearly.
You’ll feel grounded — even in chaos.
You’ll remember who you are — and whose you are.
Your Next Step
Join the 10-Day Identity Reps Challenge:
• 10 days of short, powerful prompts
• Identity declarations and guided listening
• A reset for your spirit, your schedule, and your leadership
This isn’t just another journal or tool.
It’s a return to the voice that matters most.
Start here.